Question of the Day - Friday, June 14th.

What was your first break up and what happened?

My first serious boyfriend broke up with me when I was 14 and he said it was because his friends say I was too goody goody.

I am guessing it was J.  You weren't goody goody, you were better than he

My first serious break up was when I was a freshman in college.  Mario came to pick me up and take me to his place in Waterman, IL.  He really didn't have anything in his apartment, which did not surprise me from when we worked together at Town & Country Restaurant.  He worked alot so I worked on school stuff while he worked.  We went shopping he bought me a beautiful white Rabbit fur coat, a Hulk Mania Mug, and a few other things.  We stopped at a Mexican music store to find my favorite Tape by Emilio Sestos called "Eschuches me de amor".  He talked to the girl in Spanish and she said in English that she does not speak Spanish.  He took me back to school. I called him at work and the waitress said that she was his girlfriend and hung up.  I was very confused.  A few days later he sent me a postcard of a guy water skiing towards a post in the water.  On the back it said sorry it is all I can do or something like that.  His English was not the best.  I am assuming he may have been cheating on me because I went to college instead of staying home with him or whatever the case is but guessing maybe she was knocked up.  Something may have been going on before that.  I remember later my mother telling me that after my accident my mother told him that he better not break up with me.  He wanted me to drop out of school and marry him.  I would not.  He told me I could not go to college, and I did.  I wanted to at least try.  I knew I might not make it because of my brain injuries but proud to say I made it thru my sophomore year.

It was not J. It was a tough guy but he was not like that with me. J actually broke up with me after we had dated for almost 3 years because he thought I cheated on him. I had not. I never have. He cannot say that.